Next, let’s clap the rhythm while tapping your foot every two beats (on the 12, 2, 4, 6, 8, 10). This half-time pulse with the foot is much more reasonable than quarter notes at typical bulerías tempos. You’ll find that beat 3 has the unique quality of landing on an upbeat. Focusing on this accented upbeat should help you fall into the groove. Also, this distinction will allow you to more easily feel and identify it, and thus be able to follow along, when listening to a bulerías.
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